What to do if your child screams and cries every day in preschool

One mother told me about his son, the three and has just started preschool. Described as a child who would normally not very affectionate, but when it comes to going to school, he began to scream. According to his teacher, he screamed and cried for the whole year, 2.5 hours for the first two weeks. He wondered if this is normal or is he just not ready?

Unfortunately for this mother and teacher of the child, the situation is difficult, but not so unusual. Without knowing thisChild in person, there are actually two conflicting answers that I proposed. I asked them to think of every person to know that other parents have done and felt secure in their decisions.

The solution I recommend is to try to persevere. I know how hard it is. A few things could be groped to take him to school at a time when not in class. For example, he goes three mornings, afternoon or take it on a bad day. Let me show you all hisParliamentarians and the things they like most. Making a big deal of his Cubby, his mat circle time, etc. let him play with you on the playing field. When he is not afraid to go because they know that they can enjoy themselves. Then, when you wear to school the next day, you need to talk about a particular topic that you will be shown in class. Tell him that you can not wait until he returns home to tell you how he enjoyed school.

Also tell him how happy he is nowHe is a great 3 years and gets special time with new friends and new experiences. They have a job, you need to do (he does not like to choose something like a visit to a store) and he does not go with you to do your homework. The school has its special moment, and you're so proud of him because we know that a little 'afraid to go to a new location itself. Ask him to take a picture that you can not wait to hang on the refrigerator. Be sure to ask his teacher to give him timeImage. They should also do a lot of stories about specific image for you.

Making his teacher if he can bring a blanket, stuffed animal or other comfort item that has allowed us to hold on to it. Slowly, her teachers can wean him of this. Another thing you can do is play a date with a child in her class. If he develops a friendship could be more excited to play for this child to school and can look forward to playing with him againSchool.

Not to be confused, but I know other parents who have gone through a similar situation, and after two weeks decided to pull the child out of school. He thought that he was not ready yet. He has had delays in language, and she chose to sign up using the speech for him this year. They also made a play group so she could begin to meet and become friends with children, would eventually go to school. He has worked with him for pre-reading and pre-math skills, would be missing inthree-year program, so he would not "left behind".

His son is now twenty years old, and she's sure made the right choice at that time. In fact, he taught in the same nursery school where I teach. If desired, it is not popular among other parents. You must be strong in your conviction to do the best for the child. age of three years, has left much time for school.